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A Tale of Love, Lies, and One Very Devious Affair Partner

When you aren’t the only one…

4 min readMay 23, 2025
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“Alright, brace yourselves for this rollercoaster of emotion and sarcasm,” writes one woman on r/adultery.

“So, here’s the deal. I’m feeling super conflicted and, like any reasonable person, coming to my fave sub for advice. My AP (affair partner) and I have been doing the whole ‘exclusive’ thing for about a year and a half.”

“We actually had the whole ‘we’re exclusive’ talk, like, right after our first meet. I do love him deeply, which, in the world of affair partners, is a pretty bold move on my part (or insanely stupid).”

“But I really do. And hey, he says he loves me too (shocking, right?).”

“So, recently, something felt off. Couldn’t put my finger on it, maybe it was his work stress, maybe it was my overactive imagination, who knows? But then, my gut (which, let’s be real, is always right) told me to investigate. So naturally, I did. In less than 5 minutes, I found his ad on an affair sub on Reddit, which he literally posted the night before. Yeah, you read that right…less than 24 hours before I discovered it. Talk about impressive timing. Even I can’t make this shit up.”

“I did a little more digging, as any normal person would do, and found all his deleted posts…

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MonalisaSmiled
MonalisaSmiled

Written by MonalisaSmiled

Adultery 101. Dead Bedrooms. Sex out of network. I am terrible and human. So are you. Editor of The Scarlett Letter | P.S. I Hate You | Sexpressions.

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