How Important are Blow Jobs in Affairs?

Way more than you think…

MonalisaSmiled
3 min readSep 19, 2024

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“I cheat because my wife never blows me.”

“She won’t go near my dick.”

For many men I’ve met in adultery land, they cheat because they don’t get blow jobs.

“The act of a woman selflessly giving herself to you while looking into your eyes creates a connection like no other.”

“There’s something about getting that from someone who really, really wants to give it to you.”

“It’s not the be all, end all, but when it’s offered willingly and passionately and without having to ask, there’s nothing like it.”

“My LDAP (long-distance affair partner for all you newbies in the back) was very enthusiastic and made me cum twice from oral. I had never come from oral before.”

It’s one of the best parts of cheaty sex.

A BJ is a very intimate activity.

And many married women stop sucking their man’s cock out of spite or resentment, or loss of libido.

“He doesn’t deserve a BJ.”

Or, it could be they never liked it and pretended to at first to make him happy.

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MonalisaSmiled

Adultery 101. Dead Bedrooms. Sex out of network. I am terrible and human. So are you. Editor of The Scarlett Letter | P.S. I Hate You | Sexpressions.