How Much to Tell Your Lover?
What to Share and What to Withhold
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3 min readDec 2, 2021
How much do you tell your lover in an affair?
As little as possible, I’ve learned. Let’s just say through trial and error.
They don’t know my real name until I feel comfortable, and that could be months into the affair. They don’t know where I live exactly. They don’t know where I work. They don’t know…
