I have left my husband. He doesn't know about my infidelity (I was careful, but he may find out anyways). Financially, it will be okay eventually once the settlement clears.

Our marriage was filled with unspoken and spoken cruelty. I finally feel free. I'm with my long-term lover. Onto another better chapter.

I hope my husband finds happiness in whatever fashion he hopes for and we continue to mediate agreeably through this process.