Is It Really About Frequency?

A dead bedroom in marriage

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Do you have a dead bedroom at home?

Is it really about frequency?

I’m beginning to understand that’s just part of the equation.

• Is it about passion from your partner?
• Is it about laughing, playing, and having fun?
• Is it about exploring and adventure?
• Is it about feeling and being felt like you are wanted?
• Is it about navigating waters you never dreamed existed?
• Is it about connecting with the spiritual side of the physical?

I’m starting to think it’s more than just frequency.

It’s all of it.

It’s not communicating. Not being heard. Not being seen. Not being valued.

All the “not’s.”

When you are with the right partner, you feel special. Loved beyond reason. The satisfying sex is the summation of everything else.

It’s when my guys texts, “Drive carefully. I need you safe.”
Or, “I love your body,” while caressing your ass.
“I’m such a lucky guy.”