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Sex Talk Out of the Gate Doesn’t Work

Affair mistakes to avoid

MonalisaSmiled
3 min readApr 13, 2022
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“I’d love to bend you over.”
“I’m so horny.”
“I want to shoot my load on you.”
“Can I cum on your face?”
“Can’t wait to taste your sweet pussy.”

Out of nowhere. First conversation. In the first 5 minutes.

How do women deal with ungentlemanly and inappropriate sexual men in adultery?

They block them.

I mean we are all here to get laid. I’m horny, you’re horny. But the explicit sex talk is a turn off. Especially right away.

I want a man who wants sex (as much as I do), yet can control himself. In bed and out of bed. I need a guy who has mastery over his dick and his brain.

Don’t talk a good game; be a good game.

What happens to the talkers? I ghost. It’s not even worth explaining why. They don’t get it.

“I think we would really have fun,” they backtrack when I have tried to explain in the past. “You really turn me on.” And, “I’ve never had an attraction like this.”

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MonalisaSmiled
MonalisaSmiled

Written by MonalisaSmiled

Adultery 101. Dead Bedrooms. Sex out of network. I am terrible and human. So are you. Editor of The Scarlett Letter | P.S. I Hate You | Sexpressions.

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