OMG, so damn true now! But before, when I started on r/adultery seven years ago, it was far more supportive.
Now, I post almost all my thoughts to a private adultery sub of only screened peeps (of which I'm a moderator). I don't have the agita. Our group is like the deviant family I've always wanted to have! LOL.
They are more supportive of me than my real family.