On r/deadbedrooms, you get the rare post from a wife on why she created the dead bedroom. Usually regarding lack of attraction to partner or frustration and unresolved conflict.

I’ve seen ONE posting from a man in all the years I’ve been reading. That’s how unlikely it is for a man to admit that he’s the rejector in the bedroom.

On r/adultery, as well, the adage is usually the woman doing the rejecting…

Hence, the huge number of men looking for affairs, and the low number of women in the same position.

This is a summary, of course, and not indicative of all dead bedrooms. Mine is a result of erectile dysfunction and rejection. All of us have variables.

In my book, I went into much more depth of the toxicity from both sides of a dead bedroom. A short article can only do so much to explain this behavior.