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The Power Dynamics of Adultery
Shifting from women to men for most affairs
Let’s talk about the shift in power in adultery.
I’ve done this enough to have seen this play out in real time. Not in every affair, mind you. But in most.
Women have all the power in looking for an affair.
No one can dispute this.
You could advertise having three nipples and you’d still get, “You sound beautiful!” texts and “I’ve always wanted more boob! Another one to play with!”
You can advertise no teeth and some guy will find you attractive. “No worries about biting my you-know-what, lol.” And, “I bet the rest of you is gorgeous.”
You could be a felon on the run. “I stabbed my last partner cause he did me wrong.” And, “Hey, baby, that’s awful that he wasn’t good to you. I’ll always treat you right. We’ll just keep the knives locked up.”
You are a queen. Unstoppable. Everyone wants you.
You leave your machete at home, put in your teeth, and adjust your rack. You’re gorgeous and game! And decent, charming, and fun. You maintain that balance of being not too desperate, but vulnerable and interested.
Girlie catnip.
