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What I’ve Learned From Naughty From Neglect
21 lessons I’ve learned while searching for a lover
3 min readJul 19, 2022
What I’ve learned from naughty from neglect:
- Young men love my age group. Like…really. I’m a MILF. That was a shocker. Some of these guys were infants when I was losing my virginity.
- So many men looking for a lover. It’s a feast of choices for women who are cheating.
- For men it’s the opposite. So few women to choose from. One of life’s central ironies ‘cause the tables turn the moment you become single.
- Cheating helps most of us cope in tough partnerships.
- Don’t believe in fairy tales. Everyone cheats.
- Truly “good” marriages are rare.
- So are truly “good” affairs.
- Don’t expect cheaters to be faithful. That’s an oxymoron. And you’re the moron.
- There is someone for everyone. Don’t doubt your desirability.
- Distance and proximity are the biggest hurdles.
- There will always be someone better looking, or with more money, or just different. Learn to be content with what you have to offer.
- Don’t be that lover — always on the lookout for someone better.