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What I’ve Learned From Naughty From Neglect

21 lessons I’ve learned while searching for a lover

MonalisaSmiled
3 min readJul 19, 2022
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What I’ve learned from naughty from neglect:

  1. Young men love my age group. Like…really. I’m a MILF. That was a shocker. Some of these guys were infants when I was losing my virginity.
  2. So many men looking for a lover. It’s a feast of choices for women who are cheating.
  3. For men it’s the opposite. So few women to choose from. One of life’s central ironies ‘cause the tables turn the moment you become single.
  4. Cheating helps most of us cope in tough partnerships.
  5. Don’t believe in fairy tales. Everyone cheats.
  6. Truly “good” marriages are rare.
  7. So are truly “good” affairs.
  8. Don’t expect cheaters to be faithful. That’s an oxymoron. And you’re the moron.
  9. There is someone for everyone. Don’t doubt your desirability.
  10. Distance and proximity are the biggest hurdles.
  11. There will always be someone better looking, or with more money, or just different. Learn to be content with what you have to offer.
  12. Don’t be that lover — always on the lookout for someone better.

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MonalisaSmiled
MonalisaSmiled

Written by MonalisaSmiled

Adultery 101. Dead Bedrooms. Sex out of network. I am terrible and human. So are you. Editor of The Scarlett Letter | P.S. I Hate You | Sexpressions.

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